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Post by Deceived Wife on Mar 5, 2014 21:54:26 GMT
Met with my gf/lawyer today for lunch..... She will file Monday and request an emergency hearing to put a freeze on any marital assets he has control over, including his bank account. He will be served by a constable at home and the hearing could be within days of filing; she will know the date Monday. She say's given his condition, no doubt they will grant the order to freeze the assets and set wife as beneficiary to all marital assets pending distribution. Hopefully it won't have to go that far.
I feel very sad but have nothing else that I can do. I will not sit back and watch our hard earned assets be given to folks who have no right to receive them.
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Post by Onomatopoeia on Mar 5, 2014 22:40:44 GMT
And you know they are parasites taking advantage of him. I bet none of them are asking what they can do to support him in his time of need.
You must do what you must. He wouldn't be doing that if he were well.
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Post by Deceived Wife on Mar 6, 2014 9:33:29 GMT
And you know they are parasites taking advantage of him. I bet none of them are asking what they can do to support him in his time of need. You must do what you must. He wouldn't be doing that if he were well. Nope, not a one of them. None of them are ever here helping, none of them stop by with a meal for the family in crisis..... nothing. |
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Post by needhelp on Mar 6, 2014 22:48:38 GMT
It's sad when any relationship ends...
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Post by Deceived Wife on Mar 7, 2014 5:48:07 GMT
It's sad when any relationship ends... It's also sad when a husband tried to ruin his wife financially yet does not want to divorce and wants her as caregiver. He is using me to take care of him and does not want a divorce because he does not want to separate our assets; he simply wants to leave them all to his friend/sister and one of his two children. There could be more folks receiving a bequeathment that I'm not yet aware of. |
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Post by Onomatopoeia on Mar 7, 2014 18:13:59 GMT
I am so sorry. I hope he doesn't know what he's doing. It won't make it easier or make it go away. But it's too much for one person to take.
This disease is very destructive on so many levels.
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Post by Deceived Wife on Mar 7, 2014 18:20:55 GMT
I am so sorry. I hope he doesn't know what he's doing. It won't make it easier or make it go away. But it's too much for one person to take. This disease is very destructive on so many levels. I can't imagine that on at least some level he does not know what he is doing. It's all very planned and contrived, requiring follow through. It's one thing to make the call to get the paperwork mailed...that could be HE but it's another to wait a few days, open the mail, complete it and mail it back all while asking me to get his meds at the pharmacy, or bring him some ice.... make him a sandwich.... you get the point. |
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Post by needhelp on Mar 7, 2014 20:06:15 GMT
Is it possible that he doesn't have HE, and this is all a ruse.
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Post by Onomatopoeia on Mar 7, 2014 21:46:42 GMT
I don't know about them, but, my man used HE as a way to fake his way into many things in his favor. When he gets really bad, he is harmless to me, but, dangerous to himself. HE is known to cause personality changes and hostility.
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Post by Deceived Wife on Mar 8, 2014 1:32:53 GMT
Is it possible that he doesn't have HE, and this is all a ruse. No, he has HE. He was in an HE coma and would never put himself lactulose treatment for no reason. |
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Post by needhelp on Mar 9, 2014 21:33:34 GMT
Once you file for divorce tomorrow, is he going to move out, or are you? Also, what about his surgery? From what you've said, he could be very difficult after he gets divorce papers. Be careful, it could get ugly.
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Post by Deceived Wife on Mar 9, 2014 23:32:44 GMT
Once you file for divorce tomorrow, is he going to move out, or are you? Also, what about his surgery? From what you've said, he could be very difficult after he gets divorce papers. Be careful, it could get ugly. No one needs to move...... I'm here to help him as long as he needs or wants me too. A divorce can take a long time; it's not like we will be divorced in a few weeks. This might be the wake up call he needs... I don't know. What I do know is that he is not protecting me financially so I have to do it and that really sucks. |
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Post by Deceived Wife on Mar 12, 2014 11:53:50 GMT
I signed the papers yesterday, it was an emotionally draining day..... just prior to the appt with my lawyer, he was on a 30 minute tirade where every other word was "F" this, "F" you and ended in if you "F" me with a divorce, I have a lot of people just waiting to "F" you.
I recorded the conversation, but per lawyer I need to advise him he is being recorded....but at least she got to hear what goes on here.
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Post by Onomatopoeia on Mar 12, 2014 23:28:05 GMT
Dang. In Texas only one parson in the room has to know of recording.
I bet he would still screw up if you told him you were recording your conversation.
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Post by needhelp on Mar 13, 2014 21:48:42 GMT
Has your husband been served divorce papers? He sounds as if he might flip out when he sees them. I'm worried about what he might do.
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