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VA Pallative Care Apr 18, 2014 23:58:46 GMT

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Post by Deceived Wife on Apr 18, 2014 23:58:46 GMT

Thursday we had an appointment for a pallative care eval; he is accepted. I asked them to list them on their transplant list, so he will be double listed. He tells them that if a liver were available for him today he would not take it; that he is at peace with the whole thing.

It is his decision and I have to respect it; though I do hope he changes his mind.

needhelp New Member Posts: 35	VA Pallative Care Apr 19, 2014 12:38:13 GMT Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by needhelp on Apr 19, 2014 12:38:13 GMT You can't make someone want to live. It's up to them.

Deceived Wife Administrator Posts: 88	VA Pallative Care Apr 19, 2014 16:34:00 GMT Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deceived Wife on Apr 19, 2014 16:34:00 GMT I realize that. This whole thing sucks!!

needhelp New Member Posts: 35	VA Pallative Care Apr 20, 2014 23:24:09 GMT Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by needhelp on Apr 20, 2014 23:24:09 GMT Is anyone on this forum? Sad...

Deceived Wife Administrator Posts: 88	VA Pallative Care Apr 21, 2014 9:44:14 GMT Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deceived Wife on Apr 21, 2014 9:44:14 GMT Extremely sad amongst a whole host of other feelings.... loss of control, helplessness, lonely, robbed of my marriage. scared, scarred & terrified to name a few.
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